Issues or lessons learnt

Sometimes it makes one wonder why one will behave in a certain manner. Is it because there were past instances that one can relate to therefore it demands such an action to be taken or is it due to these past instances that makes one behave in such a manner that it becomes an issue?

Take for example, platonic relationships. Are there really such things as a platonic relationship? Where do we draw the line between caring and excessive concern? Who is to say which party is at fault. It can be just a simple mail or message that one party has sent to another. But the receipient reads or feels strongly about it and treasures it. Is the receipient at fault? Or the sender has underlying messages beneath what she had sent? If the sender had no intention of it, then why send the message? She could have just left it as it is. Was there a need to inform the receipient? Or did the sender want to send a message out to someone else other than the receipient? Was the other reading too much into it?

From where i stand, i see that the sender wanted to remind the receipient of something. Maybe a certain desire that the receipient had for the sender. And/or the sender wanted to know if this desire was still there. If it was, the receipient would retain the message. Whether or not the sender wanted to fulfill this desire or continue making use of the receipient like always, we do not know.

Sometimes, are people just making things complicated and confusing or is life really so? Maybe everyone should learn how to say the correct things at the correct time. Like for example, (the simplest of which) do not tell another person who is already unavailable that you like him or her. Another example would be, do not tell others who use to have desires for you of stuff such as 'i miss you', 'dreamt of you', 'hugs' and the such. Especially when this person is unavailable. You had your chance and you gave it up.

All such examples states clearly that one covets for another. As one can already see, that the person 'belongs' to another. Seeking for something or someone that does not belong to you is coveting. And if you get this person to be yours, it becomes adultery. All of which stated in the bible (in the 10 commandments if you didn't know) is a sin. And it sends you straight to hell. *laughs* That is why, i never really like a certain group of people. Since the age of 11, i've known them to be hypocrites. There may just be 1 in every 10 of them that are true and nice but that is enough to make me become a cynic. In fact, it doesn't matter which group of people they are. All religion has a thing or two about such issues. So..my final verdict? All these people should just go swim in the lake of burning sulphur and sleep in the arms of the Devil.